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Parents can zero in on zeroes

Students who are doing well in school usually have a support team at home. 

Instead of worrying about zeroes and grades below fifty and how these grades should not be recorded in the gradebook, parents should get their kids to value school work enough to do it and to do a quality job.  A WSJ article called "Raising the Bar:  How Parents Can Fix Education" makes more sense to me than all of the promises being made by those running for office.  If parents make a big deal about the importance of school and their children's work, there is a  good chance that their children will get the message and learn to work hard and do their best.

The article has a lot of sound advice about how to structure homework time, but the bottom line is that the kids do their own work, and the parents are there to ensure that the rules are followed (no television, video games, etc.), the work is completed, and that the child has done the best that he can do.  Quality work becomes valuable and important.

I once called a parent because her daughter, Precious One, never brought a book to read during advisory class.  The class had a strict curriculum designed to help organize students and prepare them for the day.  Teachers checked folders, made sure binders were neat and organized, and taught testing strategies.  The students were supposed to bring a book from home or a library book to read every Friday.  Several students never came in with books, so I told them that I was going to call their parents if it happened one more time.   (I frequently loaned books to these students, but my supply was dwindling.  Also, the library was closed during advisory class.) 

When I called Precious One's mother, I was in for a big surprise.  She started yelling at me, and told me to just send her daughter to the library and not to bother her at work again.  Precious One was very smug about the whole experience and obviously knew that her mother would have me for lunch.

If parents hold their children accountable, the results are usually off the charts.  Plus, it doesn't cost a cent to be a support person to your child.

Posted: Monday, September 01, 2008 4:40 PM by Betty
Comments

Gina said:

Great advice!  Parents have to work with schools for their children to succeed.

# September 1, 2008 6:24 PM

Veggie Mom. said:

I feel blessed, because I've never had to deal with a daughter who doesn't do her work. I'm totally in favor of working with the school, though, to make sure your son/daughter succeeds!

# September 2, 2008 12:02 PM

MysteryTeacher said:

Next time get a copy of "War and Peace" and assign her to read it in class.

# September 2, 2008 12:39 PM

laurann said:

It seems like so many parents are afraid to let their children work independently and to fail if that is the natural consequence.  

In my particular situation, parents are far too involved rather than the typical absent parent scenario.  I believe Time Magazine called them "Helicopter Parents."  

What should we do?  I think that is a rhetorical question rather one to be taken literally.  We can only do what we know is right:  to teach in the most effective way possible, to set high expectations and maintain rigor, and maintain an approachable and compassionate demeanor as we do so.  I'm aware of the ideological nature of my comments, but really isn't that what really drives us?  Who among us entered education because we thought we could fix the problems inherent in the system?  And as for parents, few among them want to fix the system; instead they just want their children to succeed.  

Just hold your line, ladies and gentlemen.  Good teaching is good teaching, no matter what the regime, mind-set, philosophy, politics, etc. of the day.  

# September 2, 2008 9:29 PM

Lynn said:

I believe that a parent should take action and motivate their student at home. If a student has no one telling them to do something especially when they're young they're just not going to do it. Not all but most. Parents play a big role in a childs life so why wouldn't they in their childs school?

# September 3, 2008 4:23 PM
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