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Rules are made for a reason

It sometimes seems that rules are not enforced fairly.  People go into things knowing full well the consequences for failing to comply with the rules.  So, if four cheerleaders chose to shoplift, they surely knew that they could be permanently barred from cheerleading at their school.  Personally, I would be more afraid of the police than losing my position as a cheerleader, but that's just me.

The four Plano JV cheerleaders were initially kicked off of the squad for good when they were caught shoplifting late last year.  A packet they had signed prior to making the squad listed all of the rules and codes of conduct required for being a cheerleader. 

The parents fought back with appeals and won.

One Plano mom who spoke out is protecting her identity to protect her child.

She says the JV cheerleaders have been informed the district overturned the school's decision.

"The cheerleaders were told, the girls currently off the squad, would be returning to try out in the next year," she said.

Though it clearly states in the packet that if you've "been removed, you will not be allowed to try out in the spring."

I have to wonder if these parents are doing their children any favors by getting the consequences overturned.  What lessons are being learned? 

Posted: Tuesday, February 12, 2008 3:42 PM by Betty
Comments

Pat said:

I was a cheerleader coach many years ago and the parents were worse than the girls. I got screamed and threatened because I penalized the girls if they were late, not in full uniform, would not do what I said etc. No wonder we can't get teachers willing to take on extra duties.

# February 12, 2008 5:32 PM

Pat said:

I was a cheerleader coach many years ago and the parents were worse than the girls. I got screamed and threatened because I penalized the girls if they were late, not in full uniform, would not do what I said etc. No wonder we can't get teachers willing to take on extra duties.

# February 12, 2008 5:32 PM

mz.w said:

this type of "parenting" isn't doing anyone any good. i fear for society. i'm thinking a return to direct, physical consequences: corporal punishment in schools(my 8th grade boys brought this up all on their own one day and all agreed corporal punishment is effective and should be allowed) and ya know, maybe bringing back public executions might put an end to all this overrunning of the rules.

# February 13, 2008 12:43 AM

Pat said:

By the way, I have tagged you for the Passion Quilt Meme. Check it out here: http://successfulteaching.blogspot.com/2008/02/meme-passion-quilt.html

# February 13, 2008 9:05 AM

jtspencer said:

How sad!  I think it stems from either weak parenting or from a desire among parents not to lose face.  I've even seen parents say, "Well, I was like that when I was a kid."  I want to respond, "But the difference is that your parents had you accept the consequence so it wouldn't become a life-long pattern." Parents need to step up and be in charge.

# February 14, 2008 6:38 AM

MysteryTeacher said:

Boy can I relate!  Today is Valentine's Day the the kids think that it means they can break the rule about not coming inside and come in anyway and put out their valentines.  I had to stand in the hall and chase them out.  THEN a Mom came in with her two kids and when I said No kids in the halls, she just looked at me and turned to them and said, It's OK, you're with me.  I couldn't believe it.  She just told her kids that they could break the law if it suited them because rules or laws aren't important.

# February 14, 2008 9:02 AM

Plano Parent said:

I don't blame the girls or their parents, but I do indeed blame Roxanne Burleson who allowed the girls back on the team. She's a pathetic administrator who went against the school and the coaches because her husband golfs with the father of one of the girls involved. How can she get away with this?

# February 17, 2008 10:35 AM

DrPezz said:

What an insult to the coach as well as a disservice to the girls! The kids signed a contract, broke it, and receive little consequence, especially for a group regularly in the public eye. They represent the school!

People wonder why good advisors and coaches are hard to find.

# February 18, 2008 12:39 AM
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